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I am Gem DeMilo, and I cannot wait for us to create magical memories that will last us both a lifetime.
Born, raised and having spent most of my life in The Windy City, I possess a lovely blend of cosmopolitain sophistication and genuine Midwestern warmth. And while I officially call Charlotte NC my home now, I have an incurable case of wanderlust, so I tour quite often and am always up for a bespoke jaunt through a Drive Me to You or Fly Me to You!
I have been described by many as an old soul who is forever young at heart, and I wholeheartedly agree. I am mature enough to hold my own with poise, grace and a quiet sense of self assuredness. I possess an MFA in Creative Writing, which makes me a gifted conversationalist who never runs out of things to discuss. That paired with my razor sharp wit and love of wordplay means the conversation will always be riveting and stimulating. At the same time, I have a spontaneous and playful nature that ensures I am always learning, always growing and always up for adventure. While wise beyond my years, many are surprised to learn that I am in my late 30s and usually guess I am at least a few years younger (blame good genes and SPF 100 if you must). My Irish roots have blessed me with my touchably soft alabaster skin, icy blue eyes and vibrant russet waves. My Italian heritage, on the other hand, has bestowed me with my jaw dropping all natural curves, classically beautiful bone structure and a fiery passion that needs to be experienced firsthand to be believed.
I like to take the lead in a gentle, approachable way that puts sensuality and mutual enjoyment above all else. In other words, you’ll never have to play guessing games as to what I enjoy. I will assertively yet tenderly guide you, so you'll feel confident in the knowledge that our time together is as sincere and real as it gets. This can sometimes translate to explorations that go beyond a classically vanilla encounter. I consider myself a natural soft dominant, meaning that things like tease and denial, edging, light bondage, sensory deprivation, role play and certain fetishes are most definitely in my wheelhouse!
I identify as pansexual, which means I am attracted to people of all genders, races, sizes, abilities and adult ages 21 and older. I never have and never will discriminate on the basis of race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, disability or body size. My pansexuality also means that I thoroughly enjoy the company of men, women and non-binary individuals alike. Ergo, I absolutely adore time with couples! I also love any opportunity to play with my esteemed colleagues for duos (or trios or more!)
Like you, I value genuine connections and authentic experiences. As such, my rates are structured to favor amounts of time that allow things to unfold organically. I relish the chance to meet for a drink, share a meal, or plan an outing together before retiring to the private sphere. Encounters such as these are meant to be savored, so why not take our time and fully explore ourselves and each other together?
Now that you know all about me, I'd love to learn all about YOU! Let me find out what makes you tick, what excites you, what you've been craving.
I'm ready when you are, my darling.
Until then...
xo
Gem DeMilo