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"Don't let the old man in" is a country song inspired by Clint Eastwood. At 70 years of age the best way I know how to do that is to appreciate beauty wherever you can find it. Nature offers us spectacular scenes of awe as well the simple pleasures of a gentle breeze on our face. Your heart can be softened by puppies, kittens, and babies of every species. What catches our eye most and touches our heart more is the beauty of other people. Certainly physical beauty is head turning but kindness is the real treasure. So it is with moments of intimacy. The purely physical can be a thing of beauty.but what is more enduring is the warmth only kindness can bring. That step beyond beauty is the stuff of memories. You are never too old to need and appreciate intimacy or to stop adding to your treasure chest of memories. The embrace of that beauty should be slow, gentle and so genuinely grateful. Nothing is more thrilling than responsiveness.
Physical beauty may justify the price of admission but a genuine kindness is the treasure that makes you rich.