Most providers won't see you without screening you. With reviews, screening becomes a lot easier and faster. All they have to do is check out the reviews you've left, and the responses to those reviews.
Hobbyist since 1999. Charter Member on RB. I'm the same "porksword" that was on RB and NS.
To any providers reading this...
If you don't list your donations and instead say, "Call for donations," I probably will not be contacting you. I'd like you to be upfront about what you're offering and what you expect.
If you have absolutely nothing on your "no list," I won't be contacting you. You DO have stuff on your "no list." Everyone does and there's nothing wrong with that. But if you disclose your "no list" in person only after you have accepted the donation, that's not fair in my opinion. FYI, my favorite activity is face sitting. I will most likely be requesting that you straddle my face in RCG for most of the session. If that's something you're not comfortable with, I would be grateful if you would be clear about that during our initial contact.
If you require a venmo or cashapp deposit before an appointment, I will not be contacting you. Discretion is of upmost importance to me. Generating an electronic paper trail is a nonstarter and I won't do it under any circumstances. I am cash only. Zero exceptions.
If every single one of your reviews is gushing, glowing, and 5-stars, I'm going to be suspicious. I have written reviews that were quite positive, but they sometimes offer constructive criticism. When that happens, I'm always polite and respectful and I try to do it in with a spirit of helpfulness. (If it were me, I would always want to know what I could have done better so that I could deliver the best service possible.) However, in almost all cases, these reviews are deleted by the provider. That is a fundamental flaw in the way this site works. Of course, no one is perfect; everyone has their good days and bad days. But if you have dozens of perfect reviews and not a single person says anything critical whatsoever, I will suspect that you're one of those providers who deletes any review that isn't perfect. And I'll be less likely to contact you.
Having said all that, if there's anything I can do to make you feel more comfortable around me, please let me know. I consider myself a polite, respectful person. I'm super chill, I have a friendly disposition, and I have a smile on my face almost all of the time. The requested donation will be offered immediately upon arrival and I look forward to a fun positive experience which I genuinely hope will leave us both smiling. Have fun and stay safe. :-)