Middle-aged guy. On the cerebral/intellectual side. Always respectful. In decent shape, well-groomed, excellent hygiene. Not a "hobbyist" or "player." Seeking a genuine connection with a Manhattan or Brooklyn provider who'd be up for semi-regular incall get-togethers for a variety of adult activities. Definitely a bit on the "vanilla" side, but I'm especially seeking un-rushed BBJs with lots of dirty talk, teasing, edging, lap dancing. The playful seductress is my fantasy. Very into the visual experience. And very into the oral experience (giving and receiving). I find JOI extremely erotic. FS optional. I have great references.